Cigar Etiquette - The Unwritten Rules Every Aficionado Should Know | Cigardome

Q: How do you properly cut a cigar?

Use a sharp guillotine cutter and cut just above the cap line (about 1/16 inch from the end). A clean cut ensures an even draw. Never bite or tear the cap, as this can cause the wrapper to unravel.

Q: What is the correct way to light a cigar?

Use a butane lighter or wooden match. Toast the foot by holding the flame just below the cigar, rotating it to create an even char. Then draw gently while continuing to rotate. Never use candles, paper matches with sulfur, or regular lighters that can affect the taste.

Q: Should you remove the cigar band?

Traditionally, it's considered polite to remove the band, as displaying it was seen as showing off. However, modern etiquette is more relaxed. If you do remove it, wait until you've smoked past the glue line to avoid damaging the wrapper.

Q: How often should you ash a cigar?

Let the ash build naturally and fall on its own, or gently tap it off when it reaches about an inch. A long ash indicates quality tobacco and proper humidity. Never flick the ash aggressively like a cigarette.

What are the core rules of cigar etiquette?

From cutting to lighting to ashing — master the art of cigar etiquette.

Smoking a cigar is more than just lighting tobacco. It's a ritual, a social act, and for many, an art form. Whether you're new to cigars or a seasoned aficionado, understanding cigar etiquette ensures you get the most from every smoke — and show respect to fellow enthusiasts.

This guide covers everything from the first cut to the final draw, helping you navigate cigar culture with confidence and style.

How do you cut a cigar correctly?

A proper cut is essential for a good draw. Here's how to do it right:

Use a sharp cutter: A guillotine, punch, or V-cut are all acceptable. Avoid scissors or knives unless specifically designed for cigars.
Cut above the cap: The cap is the rounded end you'll smoke from. Cut about 1/16 inch from the top — just enough to open the draw without compromising the wrapper.
One clean motion: Hesitation leads to a ragged cut. Be confident and decisive.

Pro tip: Never bite the end of a cigar. It's not just bad form — it ruins the wrapper and creates an uneven burn.

How should you light a cigar?

Lighting a cigar is a two-step process that shouldn't be rushed:

Toast the foot: Hold the flame about half an inch below the cigar's foot (the end you light). Rotate the cigar to create an even char ring. You shouldn't need to draw yet.
Light while drawing: Once toasted, bring the flame closer and draw gently while continuing to rotate. The goal is an even, complete light.
Use the right flame: Butane lighters and wooden matches are ideal. Avoid candles, paper matches with sulfur tips, or Zippo-style lighters — they can impart unwanted flavors.

"A gentleman never lights his cigar from a candle; the wax affects the taste."

What is the proper way to smoke a cigar?

Once lit, the way you smoke matters:

Don't inhale: Cigars are meant to be savored, not inhaled. Draw the smoke into your mouth, taste it, then release.
Pace yourself: Take a puff every 30-60 seconds. Smoking too fast overheats the cigar and produces harsh, bitter flavors.
Rotate as you smoke: This ensures an even burn and prevents canoeing (one side burning faster than the other).

How should you handle cigar ash?

How you handle ash says a lot about your cigar knowledge:

Let it build: A long, solid ash indicates quality tobacco and proper humidity. It's a badge of honor.
Don't flick: Unlike cigarettes, cigars shouldn't be flicked. The ash will naturally fall when ready.
Gently roll: If you need to remove ash, gently roll the cigar against the ashtray's edge.

A common rule: let the ash grow to about an inch before removing it. Some aficionados see how long they can keep the ash intact.

Should you remove the cigar band?

This topic sparks endless debate:

Traditional view: Remove the band. Keeping it on was historically seen as "showing off" your brand.
Modern view: Either is acceptable. Many leave it on as it adds to the visual experience and prevents wrapper damage.
If removing: Wait until you've smoked past the glue line (usually a few minutes in). The heat loosens the glue, making removal easier without tearing the wrapper.

What are the social rules in a lounge?

Cigars are often social, whether at a lounge or a friend's home:

Ask before lighting: Always confirm smoking is permitted, even in designated areas.
Don't critique another's choice: Cigar preferences are personal. What you love, someone else might not — and that's okay.
Never light someone else's cigar: Unless asked, lighting your own cigar is a personal ritual.
Don't stub it out: When you're done, simply let the cigar rest in the ashtray and it will extinguish naturally. Crushing it creates unpleasant odors.

How do you store cigars properly?

Proper storage extends beyond etiquette into cigar care:

Humidor essential: Store cigars at 65-72% humidity and 65-70°F.
Don't mix flavored cigars: Infused or flavored cigars can transfer their aromatics to traditional cigars.
Rotate your stock: Move cigars periodically to ensure even humidity exposure.

Cigardome helps you track your collection, monitor aging, and remember which cigars deserve a spot in your humidor.

What are the final takeaways?

Cigar etiquette isn't about rigid rules — it's about enhancing the experience for yourself and those around you. The best aficionados combine tradition with personal style.

Whether you're enjoying a solitary smoke or sharing the experience with friends, these guidelines will help you smoke with confidence and class.